Living on the edgeJust started a new course on
Storytelling within hotel&restaurant..I have no clue what its about yet since the first lecture was held in danish and todays lecture sounded as interesting as a pile of sand.
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My attention goes to continue reading
The Devil Wears Prada drinking coffee at my favorite music store/café in Malmö. Now if I only smoked i´d ve very sophisticated there..or sophistiqué as I would say were I to wave a cigarette...nobodys perfect and have we all learned from our mistakes.
Got back from
Belgium two days ago. And what a great trip it was, although we spent most of the time being either drunk or hungover.
Now, to continue my telling I have to make a pause and teach you one very important flemish word.. (and from then on you won´t be able to not use in making a sentence).
The word is: marginaal and you can use it referring to people and/or a place inhabiting these people who are “living on the edge”. Sort of speak.Example 1:
On
Thursday Marlous and I went to meet Ines and Sheba at a very
marginaal party..Why was the party
marginaal? Because at this “party” there were max (MAX!) ten persons including ourselves..(five of whom I think were working there) The only solution to this problem was to get hammered. There we were: four girls dancing/limboing/singing dramatically alone on a massive empty dancefloor with a DJ about to cry with our stupid song requests. That is what I call owning the party..but we didn´t leave it at that. Once you go
marginaal you only

want to get more
marginaal. We made this possible by going to the sadest karaokebar in town by which I have now haunted flashbacks of Marlous and Ines “singing” Ace of Base and people actually
JUMPSTYLING (which is the most silly looking thing since sliced bread). I think this whole situation is at least in Top 3 of the most
marginaal experiences of my life.
Example 2:
On
Saturday we went to
Ghent to meet friends of M, Nele&Stijn, who just had a babygirl. She was so tiny, beautiful and cute..with the little feet and everything:) When Stijn asked me to hold her I secretly got a total responsibilityshock (having killed the flower and all) I haven´t held a baby since my sister was one and now she is sixteen!

In the evening we were to meet Battal and Jutta for either a hip arty party or a very
marginaal one. We miraculously landed in a pre-party with sort of strangers, Lizl and Fleur (who I met this summer in Antwerp) and some more strangers. Hip as we were we went to the hip cool arty party which was held in what I think was some strange russians livingroom (we had to ring the doorbell to get in&a 70-year-old man answered)..The party turned out to be too cool for us and we didn´t reach a higher level when a naked woman w/writings on her body floated around on stage.
So we were off to the
marginaal party which was just that,
marginaal. With countless of drinks the sweatty dancefloor was bumpin´ with music from the 90s (
marginaal) At 5-6 in the morning people were still hanging in there, dancing to Britney bitch and what not, totally beyond saving from the
marginaalness. Marlous and I somehow got home with the train at 8 the next morning.. All in a great party with greater people..Reminded me of my Nellys days in Reykjavik.
Conclusion: Marginaal parties are the greatest! Stay uncool.
Song of the night by the cute Swede:
Robyn&Kleerup – With Every Heartbeat
I´m off to a wine&cheese-evening at Ulrikas!